I’m super busy today, and will be for the next few days, so I’m posting a tidbit from my formspring to minimize time.
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Q: Only a woman who’s had sex with another woman can be considered bisexaul? What about women who are saving themselves for marriage but who are bi-sexual? Also,If I’ve never had sex with a girl does it mean I’m only straight-curious?
A: Question 1: Yes. A person whose never had sex really can’t be completely sure of their sexual identity. You can be attracted to women, men, whichever, but until you’ve had a sexual experience with the targeted group, you lack enough information to make an informed decision/have an understanding of your sexuality. There are very few people who can definitely identify their sexuality without experimentation, whereas the majority of people are curious and will need further evidence to continue.
Question 2: Answered above. If you’re one of the few people who can definitively say that they’re bisexual, kudos to you, but the majority need the experience to really decide. If you don’t like vag, you’ll make your mind up really fast.
Question 3: I’m going to assume you’re female. If you’re male, it’s a different answer altogether.
If you’ve never had sex with a girl, but are curious, attracted, and would like to test the waters, You’d be bi-curious theoretically.
If you’ve never had sex with a woman, aren’t curious at all, and aren’t attracted in a sexual way to women, in theory you’d be straight (or asexual, but that’s a whole other can of worms).
There are probably hundreds of sub-levels of each of the major sexual preferences, and these questions are difficult to definitively answer as it varies person-to-person. As they say, everything works in theory.
Sexuality really isn’t a “straight-bi-gay” thing, as most believe it is. Sexuality really is more like race; you have caucasian, asian, african, and a million combinations of each.
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